Where were you born/brought up?
I was brought up in Finchley, North London and then lived in Borehamwood, Hertfordshire from secondary school onwards.
What’s your ethnicity and what does your heritage mean to you?
Black British – African? I’m rarely asked about my ethnicity or my heritage. It was only when I lived in Germany last year and it was obvious from my accent that I wasn’t German, that I noticed this question come up a lot more. Anytime I met someone new, one of the first questions I’d hear would be ‘where are you from?’ But saying British was never enough and I would have to explain how I grew up in the UK and my parents were from Ghana which was good practice for learning the language. Occasionally, this would lead to a discussion about football or how I might be friends with someone else that they know who is also black!
My heritage is something that I’ve recently sought to learn more about. I saw this play which strongly resonated with me at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival this year called ‘The Canary and the Crow’. It was all about this dance that people from immigrant backgrounds tend to do to fit into circles where we are perceived as an outsider. The message is that in doing this, we tend to leave our cultural identity behind. This is something I’ve been guilty of and I’m keen to do more to learn and celebrate all aspects of who I am.
Do you think families from minority backgrounds are well represented in the media?
Depends which media you focus on.
How can we better bring together people of different identities, especially those with the most often marginalized identities?
If the answer were simple, I suppose someone would have already tried to do something to address the increasing divide and polarisation that we’re seeing in communities right now.
One of my favourite plays was an adaptation of Harper Lee’s ‘How to Kill a Mockingbird’ at the Barbican. Although I had studied the text in school, it was only seeing it performed live that one of the lines truly clicked. Atticus Finch goes, “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view…until you climb in his skin and walk around in it.”
I think the best way to bring people together is by just doing that. But this is easier said than done, especially when you hear things in the media or from your friends and family which can easily distort your perceptions against certain groups. I think one way to challenge this is by going to the theatre and seeing works by a diverse range of artists. Theatre can be quite powerful in transporting you to other worlds, if you let it. If you’d like to climb into someone else’s skin, that’s one of the best ways I can think of doing it. A few suggestions would be to see Barbershop Chronicles which has recently embarked on a UK tour or the Londonist have also put together a list of things that you can see this Black History Month which may be a good starting point.
Please keep us updated as you research your roots Lizzie.
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